How to Make Sex Last Longer

Getting to the climax is easy, but making the overall duration of sex lasts longer is quite hard for some men and women. When you don’t want to reach the peak yet, but the tingling and unstoppable sensations are already a push away, you get the feeling of frustration and of course, it could also make you feel unsatisfied. Aside from that, you don’t want to get embarrassed in front of your partner or worse, he/she might felt bad about how you ended up in five minutes – and he/she was just starting to heat up the moment.

Here are some simple tips on how to make sex lasts longer:

5075b18cbc4d3Don’t just automatically dive into thrusting. Pleasure each other first.
There are some men who just quickly pull out their big vein and then go ahead and do it with their women. Well, if you are in a quickie-mode, then that’s just fine, but if not, then better be mindful with your partner’s and most of all – your pleasure. Start with soft caresses and little kisses on your partner’s most attractive part. Then, you do some whispering while letting a soft kiss at the back of his/her ear. You can touch gently all over his/her body and even go deeper – under until you can hear some moaning.

As for the men – don’t focus on her inside, also mind her whole being.
What does whole-being mean? You discover her inner-self. How she reacts when you touch her by the hips, nipples, mount the whole breasts, or under her moon. The more generous you are with your tongue on the part she likes you to place it, the crazier she can be with you, too. So, find and observe her every reaction and you’ll probably get what you really deserve. At this stage, you are most likely going to make the action lasts longer.

5075b1f203cd8As for the women – tease your man slowly and mind the explosion.
Ladies, always bear in mind that some guys – if not all of them, are like a bomb that could explode anytime and you are the one who is responsible for the removal of the pin. There can be no timed-bomb guys where you could just simply play with him as long as you like and just wait for the countdown. If that’s the case, then everyone’s lucky, but, unfortunately they are all a bomb with a pin. So, make sure that every action you perform to your guy is hot and enjoyable and slowly release the pin for a greater satisfaction.

You are not in a hurry. So, think for a brighter ending.
Having sex should be fun and worth it. The more time you invest in one moment could definitely be remembered forever. So, if you want to include these pleasures in your memory bank, then make it all worthwhile. So, for once, think about how you could possibly hold an ice for long under the sun. It’s all in your mindset. And if you can hold it much longer, then you can have the longest and most enjoyable sex in your life, ever.

Best Sex Tips For First Timers

Sex can be both exciting and frustrating at the same time especially if you’re doing it for the first time. You probably have a lot of questions in your mind because you might be too afraid to do the wrong thing. It can be really awkward if both of you have no clue on what is to be done first.

The best thing you can do is to research and just follow certain tips that you can read online. Make sure that both parties are up for it and ready for your first time experience.

50aa8b8b0fa25For Him
As a guy it is very difficult to admit that you lack in experience in this matter. So in order to hide or not come inexperience when the right moment came you should master the art of making love to your partner. The most problem of guys in doing it for the first time is premature ejaculation. You will be surprised to how many guys suffer from this but there are things you can do to help you last long during your first time. You can exercise in holding it by masturbating to the point of ejaculation and stop immediately and take a pause. Try to relax and do some deep breaths then start masturbating again. This is the most basic training that you can do to your body to make it last long.

If you want to do something extra and know how it works step by step you can try on watching some films that shows it. It’s not necessarily porn, often scene from porn films are too far fetch that it is impossible to copy in real life. If you have a good idea on how it works then you are ready to set a date with your partner.

Never forget the foreplay because it is the part that excites the girls and makes them ready for the act. Make sure that you be gentle as possible with them especially if it’s going to be her first time as well.

50aa9f152c5f3For Her
As for girls they don’t usually have a problem in admitting that they are a virgin and it will be their first time doing it. Lots of boys like to share their first time with their special girl. But it doesn’t mean that you be innocent in what to expect to happened during that day. You can prepare yourself by doing a bit of research also. You don’t expect to reach orgasm on your first time and mostly it will be painful for girls but it doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy it. Make sure that you prepare for that day and make sure that you share it with the right person so that it will be meaningful.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and enjoy this special day as much as possible. For the guys you can build up for that moment by taking her out on a date and make sure that she have a great time. And for the girls it will never hurt if you dress up for that special day. You will never forget your first time doing it so make sure that it will magical.